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MANAGING YOUR PERSISTENT FEARS AND ANXIETIES
By: Stan Popovich
Everybody deals with fear and anxiety,
however some people have a hard time in managing it. As a result, here
is a brief list of techniques that a person can use to help manage their
most persistent fears and anxieties.
When facing a current or upcoming task
that overwhelms you with a lot of anxiety, the first thing you can do is
to divide the task into a series of smaller steps. Completing these
smaller tasks one at a time will make the stress more manageable and
increases your chances of success.
Sometimes we get stressed out when
everything happens all at once. When this happens, a person should take
a deep breathe and try to find something to do for a few minutes to get
their mind off of the problem. A person could get some fresh air,
listen to some music, or do an activity that will give them a fresh
perspective on things.
At times, a person might encounter a
fearful thought that may be difficult to manage. A person should
visualize a red stop sign which can serve as a reminder to stop thinking
about that thought. This technique is good in dealing with obsessive
and scary thoughts.
Sometimes we encounter a scary
situation that gets us all upset. When encountering these events,
always remember to get all of the facts of the given situation.
Gathering the facts can prevent us from relying on exaggerated and
fearful assumptions. By focusing on the facts, a person can rely on what
is reality and what is not.
Sometimes, it helps to be able to talk
to someone about our stressful situations. Talking to a trusted friend,
counselor, or clergyman can not only make us feel better, but they might
be able to give you additional advice and insights on how to deal with
your current problem.
Although I am a layman and not a
professional I have interviewed many psychologists and clergyman and I
have over fifteen years of experience in dealing with fear. Dealing
with our persistent fears is not easy, however there are many helpful
resources available to us if you look hard enough.
BIOGRAPHY:
Stan Popovich is the author of "A
Layman's Guide to Managing Fear Using Psychology, Christianity and Non
Resistant Methods" - an easy to read book that presents a general
overview of techniques that are effective in managing persistent fears
and anxieties. For additional information go to:
http://www.managingfear.com/
For free articles on managing
fear please go to:
http://www.managingfear.com/
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